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By William F. Nazzaro, founder of The Time to Lead Institute, leadership expert, performance and executive coach, and trusted advisor to leaders navigating transformation and cultural change.

Most leaders I meet will tell you they appreciate their teams.

But that’s not the real question.

The real question is: do your people feel appreciated?

Years ago, I heard a line that has stayed with me:

“As a leader, you have to learn to lead those who are different from you.”

That includes how you show appreciation. Left on autopilot, most leaders default to what feels natural to them—without realizing that their teams are made up of people who feel valued in very different ways.

If you’re honest, do you know how your team members most like to be appreciated—or are you guessing?

What the Five Language Actually Mean at Work

Based on the book The 5 Languages of Appreciation in the Workplace by Dr. Gary Chapman and Dr. Paul White, people tend to feel...

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By William F. Nazzaro, founder of The Time to Lead Institute, leadership expert, performance and executive coach, and trusted advisor to leaders navigating transformation and cultural change.

Why Accountability Fails: The Responsibility Crisis in Leadership

Is accountability driving performance in your team—or stifling ownership? What’s meant to inspire action often turns talented people into passive bystanders.

A coaching client of mine was leading an agile transformation, but their team was struggling with clarity and alignment. Their first instinct? Create a RACI model—a document mapping out who was responsible, accountable, consulted, and informed for each task.

Instead of fostering ownership, the structure backfired. People stayed in their lanes and waited for instructions—doing only what was assigned, nothing more.
Despite their efforts, they had unknowingly created an environment of compliance rather than ownership. Agile techniques alon...

By William F. Nazzaro, founder of The Time to Lead Institute, leadership expert, performance and executive coach, and trusted advisor to leaders navigating transformation and cultural change.

If you have ever worked in or collaborated with an Information Technology (IT) department, there’s a not-so-little secret: their emotional intelligence (EI) is shockingly low. This isn’t some minor flaw. It’s threatening the core of the tech industry’s productivity, creativity, sanity, and ultimately, their usage and employment. Yet, bizarrely, managers keep turning a blind eye to this festering issue. It’s time to drag this problem into the spotlight and dissect why this negligence is irresponsible and downright dangerous.

The Emotional Intelligence Deficit
Let’s get real: many tech professionals are masters of logical thinking, problem-solving, and technical wizardry but are hopelessly inept when it comes to emotional intelligence. EI, which includes self-awareness, empathy, and people skills,...

By William F. Nazzaro, founder of The Time to Lead Institute, leadership expert, performance and executive coach, and trusted advisor to leaders navigating transformation and cultural change.

In the relentless hustle of business, productivity, and efficiency often steal the spotlight. But Christine Porath’s TED Talk, “Why being respectful to your coworkers is good for business,” flips the script. Porath, a professor at Georgetown University and a workplace civility guru, explains why respect and kindness aren’t just soft skills—they’re critical to business success.

Her evidence-backed insights challenge the usual corporate playbook and offer a fresh perspective on what it takes to build a thriving workplace. Let’s dive into the key points from her talk and see how respect can boost your bottom line.

The Hidden Costs of Being a Jerk
Porath kicks things off by laying bare the hidden costs of workplace incivility. Her research shows that disrespect leads to disengaged employees, lower p...

By William F. Nazzaro, founder of The Time to Lead Institute, leadership expert, performance and executive coach, and trusted advisor to leaders navigating transformation and cultural change.

Welcome to the jungle of corporate motivation, where the strongest survive and the weak...well, they just quit. So, let’s dive into the murky waters of motivation and leadership. Whether you’re an emerging leader finding your footing or an established leader looking to refine your approach, the harsh reality is that motivation is an inside job. You can’t inject it into your team like a caffeine shot on a Monday morning.

Motivation: The Myth of External Drive

Motivation is personal. It’s internal. You can’t package it up and hand it out with paychecks. This brings us to a brutally honest truth: You don’t motivate people. You hire motivated people. That might sound dismissive, but once you understand that motivation is not yours to give, it starts to make sense.

Creating the Right Environment: A...

Leaders need to pivot in times of crisis and pivot quickly.  Your focus needs to be on getting your people through the difficult times.  There are seven critical things you need to give to your teams.

• STRENGTH: You must be strong and steady without bravado or arrogance. People look to their leaders in times of trouble.  Remember, you set the tone.
• TRUTH: You must be truthful and acknowledge the problem at hand. Do not minimize or inflate the situation.  They need to hear the information you have regarding the crisis.  Lack of information and openness breeds fear.  Be open and transparent.  Share the information you have with them.
• OPENNESS: You must be human. Superheroes are for movies and comic books.  By showing your humanity you show your credibility.  Tell them how the crisis has impacted you personally.  Share your own concerns with them. This demonstrates that you are in this with them.
• EMPATHY: You must express empathy for your team. Show that you understand their situatio
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By Bob Maksimchuk

If you want high performing teams, they have to be built first and foremost on a foundation of trust.  Patrick Lencioni cites the lack of trust as the first (of five) dysfunctions of a team.  The team members must feel that their other teammates will “have their back” when things get rough.  And as a manager or leader, that includes you too.  In fact, if you want to shift your organizational culture to a more empowered, trust-based culture, management must lead the way by demonstrating (not just talking about) the values and behavioral norms you want for the organization.

One key factor that trust is built on is consistency.  Are you consistent in your behavior?  Are you complimentary one moment and then arrogant or dismissive the next?  Are you puerile?  Vindictive?  People trust their leadership when the feel they know how you will react in various situations.  With trust they will feel they can bring issues to you for help when necessary without risking their pos...